Tuesday, March 10, 2009

Like I said...

Hate to say I told ya so.

I've gotta give her props for having enough stamina to put up with him that long. I, on the other hand wouldn't have done so. First sign of a "red flag", he would've been gone, but she kept giving him the benefit of the doubt every time. And time and time again she would ask my opinion on her situation and as a good friend I would tell her I didn't think she should keep going with it. If you complain more than sing praises its not worth it. And I don't believe it was healthy for either of them quite honestly. They rushed into their whole relationship. Boyfriend and girlfriend in less than a week of actually knowing who each other are. Then they wanted to move in together. Crazy! I can't do that...at all. (And they didn't move in together...just fyi) They did actually last longer than I thought they would, but I knew he wasn't the guy for her. They would never have "forever". Not saying he's a bad guy cause he's not, he was sweet to her and he treated her pretty well, but they weren't a good fit in my opinion. I love my best friend and I want her to be completely happy with someone. So just to clarify things, I am in no way bad-mouthing either of them, I'm just glad it ended well on both parts so it wasn't a nasty break up. Now I'm just wondering how long she'll actually stay single. She told me she plans on it for awhile, but trust me, this girl never stays single, she jumps into relationships. Always wanting to have someone there. Which is fine - its her and not me. I like to think of myself as independent =)

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